How to Speak to an NPC
Speaking to an NPC is easy.
When you are done, choose "End Conversation" to stop talking to the NPC and go back to the game.

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If another player is speaking to an NPC, they will not be able to hear anything you say to them while they are doing so. You can tell if a player is speaking to an NPC by the movie camera icon that will appear over their head.